Friday 20 January 2012

MY MISCARRIAGE EXPERIENCE

Even now, after I have had successful pregnancies and healthy children, I can still go back to that day in March 2007 (when I had the miscarriage).
I can still remember: 

  • The fear, the heart-sinking, gut-wrenching fear I felt when I first saw the fresh blood stain. 
  • The panic, the heart-breaking panic that came over me when, about 15 hours later, I could feel contractions as my body prepared to expel my baby. 
  • The sense of despair that completely weakened me physically as I was examined in the hospital.
  • The grief of losing someone that I loved so much but was never going to meet (that is a kind of grief that is very difficult to explain).
That was a dark time in my life and remembering it still has the power to bring tears to my eyes. The miscarriage changed me forever; I will never forget the events and the emotions of that experience. And I hope, the next time you see someone going through a pregnancy loss, you will remember my story and be a little more compassionate with her.

Friday 6 January 2012

THE TRIPLE-R MODEL

This is a model I developed to explain the factors that influence the response of a woman to miscarriage.
A miscarriage could hardly be described as a life-threatening condition but its effects on the woman, both physically and emotionally, are significant (1). This significance of the miscarriage experience on her mental health and emotional wellbeing is unique to the woman: miscarriage, though very common is extremely personal. The women differ in needs and expectations as well as their actual experience of the miscarriage (2).
A woman’s appraisal of her miscarriage is typically in terms of what being pregnant meant to her and what was at stake for her in losing the pregnancy (3) (4). The attribution of meaning to the pregnancy may be responsible for observed clinically significant negative reactions to miscarriage. Reports exist of up to 51% of women developing clinical depression after a miscarriage with a minimum of 22% developing clinically significant levels of depression and/or anxiety (5). It is also understood whatever meaning is attributed to the miscarriage affects the woman’s view of medical care received (versus medical care desired) in the course of the miscarriage experience (3). 
There are strict, established and concise guidelines on the management of the medical features of a miscarriage but little guidance is offered as to how health care professionals are to manage the psychological or social aspects of this loss (6). Gynaecologists and midwives may not be familiar with the diagnosis or management of depression (5). It is therefore pertinent that comprehensible insight into the factors that surround clinically significant mental and emotional responses to a miscarriage is made available.
The Triple-R Model is simply an academic discourse of the evidence already in existence about the factors that influence the grief response to a miscarriage, either by attenuating it or by aggravating it. The three R’s stand for the factors that may pose a Risk, the factors that provide Resilience and the Role of the health care professional in caring for the woman/couple after a miscarriage.
In other words, Risk+ Resilience+ Role àResponse
By expanding on these factors, a clear picture of the role of the health care professional in the management of the woman’s response to the miscarriage will emerge.



REFERENCES
1. Abboud L, Liamputtong P. When pregnancy fails: coping strategies, support networks and experiences with health care of ethnic women and their partners. Journal of Reproductive and Infant Psychology,  Vol. 23(1) pp. 3-18, 2005.
2. Smith L, Frost J, Levitas R, Garcia J. Women's experiences of three early miscarriage options a qualitative study. British Journal of General Practice, Vol. 56(524) pp198-205, 2006.
3. Swanson K M. Research-based practice with women who have had miscarriages. Journal of Nursing Scholarship, Vol. 31(4) pp339-345, 1999.
4. Swanson K M, Karmali Z A, Powell S, Pulvermakher F. Miscarriage effects on couples' interpersonal and sexual relationships during hte first year after loss: women's perceptions. Psychosomatic Medicine, Vol. 65, pp902-910, 2003.
5. Lee D T S, Wong C K, Ungvari G S, Cheung L P, Haines C J, Chung T K H. Screening psychiatric morbidity after miscarriage: application of the 30-item General Health Questionnaire and the Edingburgh Postnatal Depression Scale. Psychosomatic Medicine, Vol. 59(2) pp207-210, 1997.
6. Frost J, Bradley H, Levitas R, Smith L, Garcia J. The loss of possibility: scientisation of death and the special case of early miscarriage. Sociology of Health and Illness, Vol. 297, pp 1003-1022, 2007.